Premarital Counseling and Weddings

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! If you are looking to invest in developing a strong foundation for a lasting marriage through premarital counseling and to reserve a venue for your wedding here at Church On The Move, we are excited to celebrate with you on your wedding day.

COMMON QUESTIONS ABOUT PREMARITAL COUNSELING

How do we begin the premarital process and/or schedule a pastor to officiate our wedding?

Contact us at info@cotmtyler.org or 903-595-5256.

Do we have to be members of Church On The Move to go through the premarital process or have a COTM pastor officiate our wedding?

Weddings and premarital counseling are only performed when either the bride or the groom, parents or guardians, are members of Church On The Move, or by prior approval of the senior pastor.  

 What are the guidelines for a Church On The Move pastor to officiate our wedding? 

As stated in the Bible and in accordance with Church On The Move beliefs and bylaws, weddings will take place between one man and one woman. 

If you are interested in having a COTM pastor officiate your wedding, premarital counseling is required prior to the wedding. COTM premarital counseling must be completed a minimum of two months before the wedding and before a pastor and the church will be secured for the wedding.  If the premarital counseling is completed outside of COTM, counseling must be scripture-based, and we will need documentation of completion. This documentation should include the curriculum studied, a minimum of 6 hours completed and who facilitated your process on a form from your premarital counselors directly emailed to info@cotmtyler.org

 In addition, we recommend a minimum of a $300 honorarium for a COTM pastor who officiates your wedding and should be given to him/her directly on the day of the wedding. 

Is there a cost for premarital counseling?

We do not charge for premarital counseling, however the premarital counseling must be completed at least two months prior to the wedding, and before a COTM pastor or church facility can be secured.

WEDDINGS AT CHURCH ON THE MOVE

Do I have to be a member to be married at Church On The Move?

Yes, the bride or groom must be an active member of Church On The Move to be married at COTM, unless prior approval is given by the senior pastor.

How do I become an active member of Church On The Move?

To become an active member of Church On The Move please complete the Next Move classes. For information about the Next Move, go to our website at cotmtyler.org/nextmove.

Can I have my reception at Church On The Move?

Unfortunately, we are unable to accommodate receptions.

Can I book the church or a pastor if I am not engaged?

 No. In order to book the church or a pastor for a wedding, you must be engaged and complete the premarital classes.

How far in advance can I book the church?

The church may be booked once the premarital counseling is complete and there are no conflicting activities or holidays already on the calendar.  Weddings will not be scheduled during the month of December, Good Friday, Easter Sunday, or on national holidays or weekends, such as Memorial Day, Independence Day, Labor Day, Thanksgiving, Christmas or New Year.